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Ten ways you’re making your life harder than it has to be

By Tim Hoch

1. You ascribe intent. Another driver cut you off. Your friend never texted you back. Your co-worker went to lunch without you. Everyone can find a reason to be offended on a steady basis. So what caused you to be offended? You assigned bad intent to these otherwise innocuous actions. You took it as a personal affront, a slap in the face.

Happy people do not do this. They don’t take things personally. They don’t ascribe intent to the unintentional actions of others.

2. You’re the star of your own movie.

3. You fast forward to apocalypse.

4. You have unrealistic and/or uncommunicated expectations.

5. You are waiting for a sign.

6. You don’t take risks.

7. You constantly compare your life to others.

8. You let other people steal from you.

9. You can’t/won’t let go.

10. You don’t give back. When it comes down to it, there are two types of people in this world. There are givers and there are takers. Givers are happy. Takers are miserable. What are you?

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