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Molly moves to Boston on July 1. I've never lived with anyone for more than 10 years, except my parents and siblings, so ... yeah, I've never lived with anyone as an adult for more than 10 years. I don't remember how long I lived with Tammy -- five years? She was the only other long term roommate.

It will take some getting used to, losing daily contact with someone who has gotten to know me so well, with whom I can speak in shorthand. Who knows almost all of my secrets.

But it's a good thing, truly, for something to shift, and thankfully it's shifting without trauma, without rancor or hurt feelings. At least, there's no rancor or hurt feelings yet.


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